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jessica
Jan 192 min read
"a reflection of the first anniversary"
Anniversaries of passing won't bring back loved ones, but they remind us we're one step closer to reunion—reframing sadness with hope.
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jessica
Jan 141 min read
"the second birthday"
A grief-related post regarding the second heavenly birthday of my Mom.
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jessica
Dec 24, 20243 min read
"christmas eve"
Image Source: Â Charles Thonney from Pixabay It's hard to believe that tomorrow marks the second Christmas without my Mom. Looking back, I...
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jessica
Mar 16, 20242 min read
"grief & phone numbers"
Photo from Tofros.com "Is it crazy of me to not delete my Mom's phone number by now?" "My relative is telling me that I shouldn't be...
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jessica
Jan 21, 20242 min read
"Happy Birthday, Mom"
2024 Of all the "firsts" this year, my mom's first heavenly birthday was the hardest for me. I think it hit me so hard because, unlike...
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jessica
Jan 18, 20243 min read
"grief and the holidays"
2024 I decided to wait until after the holidays to share my experience and feelings about my first Christmas without my mom. I also held...
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jessica
Oct 14, 20234 min read
"signs"
2023 I never really believed in signs or an afterlife before. I saw them as comforting ideas, meant to ease the pain of mourning and...
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jessica
Oct 10, 20233 min read
"reshaping my relationship"
Image Source: Monstera Production from Pexels.com I’ve reached a point where, when I think of my mom, I don’t see her as fully gone at...
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jessica
Sep 1, 20232 min read
"my thoughts on my adoption now"
Image Source: M-Productions on iStock.com Over the past several months, I’ve received a few emails from Ancestry, urging me to renew my...
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jessica
Aug 30, 20232 min read
"little things"
Image Source: CandyMafia One of the first public waves of grief I experienced came soon after my mom passed away in February 2023. I was...
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jessica
Aug 22, 20234 min read
"say everything"
Image Source: Pexels on Pixabay.com Regret is a common emotion after losing a loved one, especially if you didn’t get the chance to say...
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jessica
Aug 9, 20233 min read
"afraid of forgetting"
Image Source: Pexels on Pixabay.com I don’t remember much from my childhood—or even from just five years ago. My memories tend to come in...
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jessica
Jul 30, 20232 min read
"feeling guilty for feeling happy"
Image Source: Pexels on Pixabay.com After my mom passed away, I found myself feeling like it was inappropriate to smile or laugh. I kept...
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jessica
Jul 28, 20233 min read
"almost losing a pet after a loss"
Mr. Milo; 2023 This post is inspired by a personal experience I had recently, and I realize it may not resonate with everyone—and that's...
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jessica
Jul 27, 20232 min read
"continuing bonds"
Image Source: Â Bella H. on Pixabay.com When we brought my mom and her urn home, I would often wait until late at night to go downstairs...
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jessica
Jul 26, 20236 min read
"relationships may change"
Image Source: Nothing Ahead on Pexels I read early on that relationships often change after losing a parent—or any loved one. I quickly...
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jessica
Jul 25, 20232 min read
"rephrasing 'lost the battle' to cancer"
Image Source: Lludmila Chernetska on iStockPhoto Another phrase I often see in online grief forums that can be irritating is "lost the...
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jessica
Jul 23, 20232 min read
"tenses"
Image Source: Augustas P on Pexels After the loss of a loved one, it can take time to shift from speaking in the present tense to the...
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jessica
Jul 20, 20232 min read
"i'm officially an orphan now!"
Image Source: Mabel Amber on Pixabay The phrase: "I'm officially an orphan now!" — I’ll be honest: when I first came across posts or...
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